20 Lessons we learned in 2020


20 Lessons we learned in 2020

1. Commit To Personal Growth

By improving who you are through the actions you take, you can completely reinvent yourself into the person you’ve always desired to become.

2. Measure your relationships by quality, not quantity

You don’t have to have a large inner circle to be loved, valued, or appreciated.

3. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness

Don't be afraid to ask for help or let someone know you're struggling. If you find it difficult to ask for help, practice!

4. Live your life, and stop seeking other people’s approval

spend more time creating what you wish to see and less time worrying about what other people think about it.

5. It never gets easier, You get better

 If you're in a difficult situation right now, remember that after the winter, there is spring. After a difficulty, there is an opportunity.

6. Nothing worth having comes easy

If you’re currently putting blood, sweat & tears into something….keep on going. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it.

7. Getting up early is a game-changer

Studies have suggested that when a person gets up early, he is more energetic and takes less time to do a task that would otherwise take more time. He is also more adept at making better decisions, planning, and achieving goals.

8. Emotions alone wouldn't take you anywhere

You need the right balance of emotions and rationality to do things right. Learn to use them constructively for your self-improvement.

9. You wouldn't find many people around you during your struggling phase 

Always remember those who stood by your side in your dark they are the real ‘gems’ of your life.

10. Value the people you have in your life 

Your success wouldn't matter much if you don't have someone to share it with. Enjoy the journey and make some life long companionship as life is much more than achieving the goals.

11. Be patient

Patience leads to more productivity, better finances, and happier life.

12. Your Focus Is Your Power

What you focus your thoughts on creates the feelings you have in any given moment. Focus on the positive and you will feel positive.

13. It is completely okay to say no to things that don’t serve you

You don’t have to feel bad about saying no; you don’t have to make excuses. 

Honor yourself by saying no.

14. Time flies fast

Time management is a very essential part of every individual's life. Be aware of how you use your time because that's the most precious asset you have.

15. Never let another person define your worth

Know your own worth and be confident. People also will have their own idea. But yours matters the most.

16. It’s okay if people don’t like or understand you 

Don’t take criticisms personally and know that people view life through their own unique, personal lens.

17. Everything is long term

There are no short cuts to success. Invest in relationships, skills, and habit building. You have to turn up every day and be patient.

Put in the hours and play the long game.

18. You are the average of the five people you spend your time with

Who do you spend the most time with? Choose your company carefully. Whoever you spend your time with will influence your thinking norms.

19. No one can mind-read. Share your thoughts

If you share your thoughts and feelings, people will start to understand what is going on in your head and can help solve issues or share similar vulnerabilities.

20. Add value first

Do things for free. Help out when you can and ofter and don’t expect anything back.

The money will come next.

Thank you for reading.

2020 was definitely a hell of a year, but it was the year that helped us to get better.

Any favorites from this list? What would you add?